Nope. Still alive and kicking.
I recently joined Facebook after someone started a group for my old high school (which doesn’t exist anymore as of like the mid-1980s, so it is a little different than just any old reunion group). It just adds one more wasteful thing to my already busy list of way more important things to do.
So, in Facebook, you suddenly get reconnected with all sorts of people you probably didn’t really want to reconnect with. You also get to find people you really wanted to find but never could. It’s a tradeoff of sorts. Sometimes you even find that the world is really really small and one of your blog buddies from Illinois is friends with your Virginia coworker from 1991. That was sort of eerie in a Six Degrees sort of way.
As I was poking around on Facebook, I had an interesting thought (interesting to me anyway). People are pulling out various and sundry photos from the past and posting them. They are few and far between. There’s a little implied blackmail thing going on, in a fun sort of way, of course.
So the revelation for me was how different my childrens’ lives will be in the future. There will be photos of every waking moment of their lives. We got our first digital camera in 2001. Simon was 4, Alvin was not quite 2, and Theodore had just been born. We have TONS of film photos of the older 2 (well, more truthfully, the oldest), but since the moment we got a digital camera, I have taken kept (let me go check my Photoshop catalog….) 25,513 photos!. I have tagged about 70% of them (I’ve been really good in the last year about tagging as I import them to the catalog).
Every.single.milestone in their lives has been captured in a photo. Will anyone give a crap later on? Who is going to look at these photos? We certainly aren’t going to force people to sit through slideshows! Oh wait. We already do that.
I have noticed that kids today also document their own worlds. My kids are no exception. They have digital cameras and a digital video camera. This could definitely come back to haunt them or their families sometime (an example would be the Facebook and MySpace pages of 4 local teens killed in a tragic highway accident showing pictures of themselves drinking, etc.). We used to protect our privacy, but now we advertise our lives on the web via blogs and personal pages. Isn’t that weird?



6 responses to “Not Dead (yet), just stuck in Facebook”
SabrinaT
December 16th, 2008 at 03:04
Ian and I were just talking about privacy the other day. I think by the time our boys are adults privacy will mean something entirely different…
Meg
December 16th, 2008 at 12:06
hmmm, I have a newspaper clipping about this sitting here to blog about. Maybe I need to get it written..
COD
December 16th, 2008 at 13:08
Personally, I’m quite glad that digital cameras and cell phone cameras did not exist when I was in high school and college. The pictures I volunteered to be in (prom, etc) are bad enough, the candids would be absolutely debilitating!
paradisefound
December 16th, 2008 at 18:26
Isn’t FB it’s own weird little world?? I joined – of course – because it’s the grand new way to network for people like me who work from home behind a desk. But in no time, I’ve been “found” by people from way back, who, frankly, I’m not sure I really want to reconnect with!
jove
December 16th, 2008 at 21:10
This kind of thing is probably the main reason that I have resisted so far. I can’t think of a good reason to add one more way to waste time on the internet to my life
Topsy-Techie
December 16th, 2008 at 23:28
I recently blogged about how Facebook had begun eating away at my life. Its just so dang addicting to catch up with people you haven’t talked to since MIDDLE SCHOOL!! We are so open with our lives now, which consequently makes us pretty vulnerable, too. Still not sure if that is a good thing or a bad thing, but it is definitely an interesting thing.
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